Dear Abee, about love…

There’s this guy I follow on Instagram. He looks kind and amazing, and I found him on other social media platforms and found out about some of his interests. I’ve seen him once or twice around campus like the dining halls and I happen to like him a little. I’m known to be bold but with this guy, I’m really scared because what if I screw it up and he thinks I’m not pretty or whatever. What do I do?

Dear Reader,

Being scared to ask a guy out is super normal. Stereotypically, it’s the other way around!

There’s plenty of love stories that start out with the girl asking the guy out! (Not to make you delusional or anything.) Go for it! Next time you see him, ask to get a drink, coffee or a snack! (whatever is legal for you) If he doesn’t want to because you’re “not pretty enough or whatever” he IS NOT the one! Everyone deserves someone that thinks they’re the most beautiful person ever. And, if he wants you just for looks, it’s not worth it either! I say go for it, and even if it doesn’t work out, what matters is that you went for it, and he probably wasn’t the one in the end. Whether this ends up successful, or not, all that matters is that you shot your shot. Our lives are too short, and the world is too messed up to not go for it! I wish you all the luck in the world, Reader. <3

, Abee 🐝

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